Getting Chatty
The secret to earning good money while on cam is to get your clients talking. The longer you can keep them in conversation, the longer they are paying you and you can sit and watch your credits go up and up!
You will get quite a few people "ping" in and out of your room. They may quickly say hello and then leave, some don't say anything at all. Don't ever take this personally. As well as there being plenty of big spenders on the site, there are also plenty of cheap skates who are trying to get as much as they can for as little as possible... you will know one of these as soon as they jump into your group (they rarely go private) and say something like "Get your tits out" and then when you don't or you ask for a tip, they leave. Let them go, they are never going to spend big money anyway.
Just as you will learn to recognise a "cheap" you will also recognise a "spender" What you want to do, is get him talking. You may be more than happy to do your full show for him... later! Don't give yourself away too easily.
Question is, how to get that conversation flowing?
You could imagine that you are on a date. Think of things that you would ask someone if you were sat in front of them? Even if you knew at the end of the date, this guy is definitely getting it ! you wouldn't go straight to that. So be fun and flirty and build up to it.
You could start with something like...
Tell me more about yourself, what are you in to?
Lets play a game of Q&A.. i'll go first.. what would you do to me if you were here with me?
Tell me your favourite fantasy and then i'll tell you mine..
What's the craziest place you have ever had sex?
It's not always about sex, you will get a few guys that are missing something in their lives and just want to find out how your day has been, talk about your dreams and hopes etc. The trick is to suss out who you are talking to and lead them down that conversation path.
There are plenty of resources online too. Love Honey sell some sexy card games that you could use like Kinky truth or dare. Obviously you can go through the cards and pull out any that you are not happy with. Kinky what would you prefer? is also popular. For example:
Would you rather have sex outside in private, or sex inside surrounded by people?
Would you rather only ever have sex in bed or never have sex in bed again?
The trick is to ask open questions, something that can not be answered by a simple yes or no.
Also when typing try not to type your responses in one long message. You can not see when someone is typing. All the time you are giving them attention and reeling them in, they will want to stick around and see what you say next, all the while your credits are increasing. It doesn't work every time but when it does, it's a real money earner.
This is where the group chat on WhatsApp can come in handy so its good to check in now and then as girls will happily share any tips they can, and if you find something that works well for you, you can share it too. It's also a place to have a good giggle and keep things light hearted.
The most important thing is to be yourself and have fun. This will shine through while you are online.
You will find that regular users of the site will use abbreviations, this is to save them time when typing a message to you. To help you understand what some of these mean we have created a list for you..
- AP - Age play, generally younger (This is forbidden with our agency)
- ATM - Ass to mouth
- BB - Baby
- BBC - Big black cock
- BDSM - Bondage, discipline, domination and submission
- BJ - Blow Job
- BWC - Big white cock
- C2C - Cam to Cam
- CEI - Cum eating instructions
- CBT - Cock and ball torture
- CD - Cross dresser
- CIM - Cum in mouth
- DP - Deep penetration
- Dom - Domination
- Findom - Financial domination
- FJ - Footjob
- G/C Girl on cam
- GFE - Girlfriend experience
- JOI - Jerk off instructions
- TS - Transgender
- SB - Sugar baby
- SD - Sugar daddy
- S&M - Sadism and Masochism
- SPH - Small penis humiliation
- Sub - Submissive
- SW - Sex Worker
- WAM - Wet and messy